I always use my Medium as my journal, to write the life lessons that I got. This time, the intention is — not for me to write what I have known, but — to write my latest spiritual journey with hope to get the silver linings behind those surprising events…

Yesterday, 3 July 2021, was the day my friend from high school passed away. We barely talked since 2010, a couple days after we joined a pageant competition in high school — one of the most embarrassing moment in my life. His name was Vebryto, a friend that was quite…

I just got a self-revelation a couple weeks back after I watched the This is Paris Documentation. …

It’s a common question I hear — especially from my mom — when people ask close-ended questions like “It’s _______, right?”. Many of us may confidently think that we are looking for the truth yet most of the time we are actually expecting supports for our arguments. …

What I learned recently is that finding true love is like finding the best pair of jeans. It may sound easy but can be tricky in the practice. Some people are very picky in finding the right jeans: it must come with great comfort, great fit, great look, and great…

This revelation came to me when I talked to a friend of mine — Ridho, a Psychology undergraduate student — who told me that I was being judgmental while I thought I was trying to empathize. …

Failures have taught me so much that I want to share to you how now I can be grateful for every setback I face, instead of feeling down for weeks. It all started when… Case 1 I was once thought myself as a failure. Back in college days when I aspired to…

In contrary to the title, I actually don’t believe in the terms “right person at the wrong time”. Many people refer it when they find someone that they think is compatible to be their so-called “the one” but can’t be together because of some circumstances. Some may find the person…